You can spend tons on your wedding and still walk away with emptiness. Huge lavish affaires with the latest wedding trends a plenty is on every girls wedding wish list. But long after the day has ended, you'll want to look back on the smiling faces of the people you care for. Consider your guest list the pre-nup of memories. Ensure that it consists of only the important parts of your life. You don't have to invite the whole office if you have only one friend in it. Start early. Create your list and edit it over time. Don't let a tradition of big weddings surpass your desire for a beautiful, memorable celebration. Be clear on your invitation about plus ones and children.