Top Wedding Guest Woes, and How to Avoid Making the Same Mistakes

Don't Be Boring and Predictable

One shouldn't have to over indulge in alcohol to have a good time at a wedding. 
Let's face it, after the grand entrance, speeches (that's a whole other discussion), food, and a bit of mingling, the party could fizzle out. Let's explore the turn it up factor!

• Music and Dancing

Ceremony music is all about the promenade, then you have cocktails and dinner music. A great DJ, for the dance portion, is a perfect way to shift gears. Consider compiling a play list that invokes memories you created with your special guests. There's something about a special song that gets those tender feelings flowing. Be sensitive of the type of music. Not everyone will appreciate your love for Ozzy. 

• Self Serve Fun

You can be entertaining without DOING all the entertaining. 
Lawn Games, DIY Photo Booth, Photo Cut Out Stations, Wedding Scavenger Hunt....Be creative and reminiscent. What was fun to YOU? Incorporate silly, fun things your guests will never expect and be excited to participate in. It IS a party.

Venue Complaints

• Location

You love the barn in the mountains, and have always dreamed of getting married there, but picture this...
Your guests arrive to frigid temperatures and sheeting rain that is common to the area, but not so common for your guests. If not prepared, they could get soaked or shiver all night long. Worse yet, leave early if it becomes intolerable. There are a few precautions you could take to prevent this from happening, like umbrellas, pashminas, shelter and more. The down side to that is the added cost.
Or even a more bearable location.

• Permitting Issues

Look into the restrictions BEFORE you book. Some venues don't permit alcohol, or may have require you purchase it in house.

• Parking

​Parking that is more than a saunter is discouraging. There are simple solutions and some not so simple solutions. Bussing, Drop off points, valet and ride sharing to name a few.

• More than One Location

How many times do your guests want to get in and out of their cars? 

Especially for the Kids

Don't forget the little guys. Parents tent to leave early when the fussing begins. Give them something to do that's all their own or something parents can participate in. Some top picks from the self serve fun above are a great problem solver.

• Kids tables and chairs. A great addition for more intimate gatherings. People tent to know each other and don't mind seating their kids a separate table, just for them
• Create an activity or adventure both at the table and throughout the venue. Scavenger hunts are making a comeback. Think of a theme that embodies your style but adds a touch of fun.
• Special Place Settings. How about a printed place mat with oodles of doddles, crayons or pens. Kids are busy creatures.